If you are on a quest to find yourself, continue. It's a pleasurable thing to learn the answers to the questions of you.
What's the big deal about failure?
If you ever find yourself failing, fail, fail, fail. And survive, smile on your face. It sucks, I know.
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Don't hate. Emulate.
This goes for "love" as well as "success" - rather than be jealous of something beautiful, find your own something beautiful.